One of my closest girlfriends just stayed with me for a couple weeks. She is a very girly girl and all about fashion. She has inspired me to adapt some new style goals for the new year because fashion has been very low on my priority list and I really need to step up my game. This post has been inspired by Fragments.com, but all thoughts and opinions are my own.
New Year – New You
Typically I'm not one to jump on the whole resolution train. However, there really is something about the new year that inspires changes and better habits. I don't like to go overboard because I know I'm only setting myself up to fail if I get too ambitious. Instead I'm setting fun and realistic goals for the new year.
After spending some time with my girlfriend, Kit, who also happens to be a body builder and all around girly girl, I noticed just how much I let myself slide. Being in school full time and focusing on my kids in any spare time, I kind of forgot to remember that I'm a lady. I'm a failure of a lady actually. I am terrible with makeup, completely inept with hair and am lucky if I dress myself with matching clothing.
I'm lucky to have some great girlfriends that love teaching me their ways. So for this new year, I am going to dedicate a little more time to looking my best. 
More Jewelry. I may still rock my jeans and t-shirt, but maybe I'll throw on some simple accessories so I don't look like I just came out of the barn. (Which may actually be the case.)
When I'm actually going out, I am definitely going to wear the swanky stuff. I love those earrings! They look like raptor claws!
Fun Hairstyles. I have the most flimsy hair. It's horrendous to work with, but I am finding that with the right products, it's a bit more manageable. And my girls are teaching me new tricks every chance they get.
Fancy Dresses and a Fit Body. These two go together because I hate dressing up when I'm not happy with my body. I am absolutely going to focus more attention on my fitness. I'm not going to promise to workout every day, but I will get my butt moving. And, as a reward, dressing up will be that much more rewarding!
Oh, and hats. Totally wearing more of those this new year too. 😀
Kit competed in her first bikini competition this fall and it was such a wonderful experience. Her dedication was beyond impressive and it really shined on stage. She even placed 4th! (That's incredible since it was her first show.)
As a member of the audience, we had a blast and met some really cool people. This guy. I mean, wow. Just LOOK at him!
What are your goals for the new year? Do you plan to do any fashion updates?
Tammy Woodall says
I enjoyed this post. I definitely want to try to get more fit.
Sarah L says
OK, so I’m fashion challenged. I like earrings and hats to keep the sun off when I’m working in the garden.
ellen beck says
You are so cute in theese pictures! I myseelf am in such a style rut. I have hats you can borrow though- hubby and I went to an estate sale and have 2 huge boxes they are so cool I even wear some now and again!
Margot C says
I dunno, not fashion certainly. Maybe to organize my spices or something.
Julie Wood says
You look great! I like your hair. I am going to get fit and make exercise a priority in 2015! I like trying different earrings and this pair are cute! I will have to try some different hair styles.
Gaby says
I also want Fun Hairstyles!! 😛
Mary O'Malley says
I need to work on finding some fun hairstyles for myself too. The only thing I have right now really is I curl my hair every once in a while. Hehe. Here’s to the new year!
Jennifer Sikora says
I plan on doing yoga every single day. It is my new found love and I cannot believe that I have went this long without doing it.
Robin (Masshole Mommy) says
I think I am pretty stylish, so I am happy with my clothes. I am always up for more clothes shopping, though.
lisa says
My goals for this year include being more fit and trying to be a bit more stylish and less thrown together!
Kelly Hutchinson says
Since I work from home and have gained a good bit of weight, I shy away from going out. I love the braid in your hair. Super cute.
Mistee Dawn says
I have so many goals this year. Mainly to get out of my sweats and my PJ’s every day. lol
Shauna says
I wish you and I lived closer, as it seems we have so many of the same goals. My goal this year is to dress every day like I would run into an ex… ha!
Meagan Paullin says
I really need to work on doing a little more to spruce myself up on a daily basis. Working at home, and Abby still being here at home with me all day, means we don’t really see anyone. Which makes it tough to get motivated to put on makeup or get dressed in REAL clothes.
But – I invested in some cute new leggings and boots, which are just as comfy as sweats. And am committing to at least a 5 minute morning makeup routine to look a little more presentable. And maybe brush my hair, to stop scaring the FedEx guy with my wild style, 🙂
Jesica H says
You are adorable! I wish I had any sense when it comes to fashion. I keep to what is comfortable, but I would love to accessories and maybe throw in some cute shoes, or leggings, or belts, ect. I am however pretty good about finding ways to do my hair that are different, yet simple. Thanks for the post!
Dee Mauser says
Losing weight is first on my list for the new year, especially since we plan to vacation in May. I just need the motivation and energy to get started.
Stacey- Travel Blogger says
I think trying out new hairstyles can really be fun for the new year! Also, I love those earrings!
tammileetips says
I love that hat! I am trying to find more ways to squeeze in more movement through out my day. Those are great goals for the year
mykidsguide says
Wow, that guy is really big; I wonder how many years of training it took him to get like that!
valmg @ Mom Knows It All says
You look terrific in that hat, also that black dress! No fashion goals for me, I’m one of those people that goes for comfort over style every time.
Mama to 5 BLessings says
Look at you girl with that pretty slinky dress on – you look great! My goal is to lose all the pregnancy weight!
Amie H says
I am trying to get more fit
Kristin says
What a fun idea to change up your style and make goals. I have made goals of not wearing my workout clothes in public. this makes me get my workout done before my errands!
Sarah L says
I won’t leave the house without earrings.
Mitzi Fisher says
I love this review and great ideas shared. I will be reading this again
Irina says
I’m planning to clean out my closet this year, donate or sell all the stuff that I don’t wear, so I can have a space for my new stuff.
jeevon kay says
Oh! I so want a new hairstyle too 🙂